Comments on: A monopoly of ideas http://controlfreak.net/2007/12/15/a-monopoly-of-ideas/ a survivor's guide Sun, 20 Jun 2010 15:16:09 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Deborah http://controlfreak.net/2007/12/15/a-monopoly-of-ideas/comment-page-1/#comment-46248 Deborah Sat, 06 Mar 2010 20:07:36 +0000 http://controlfreak.net/2007/12/15/a-monopoly-of-ideas/#comment-46248 I am 1 of those control freaks. I want to control everything and everyone. I do not want to listen to anyone else’s ideas. If I listen to other people’s ideas and we use them. Everyone may figure out how incompetent I really am. I have to control everyone’s actions, my husband, my employee’s, my kids. Everything needs to be the way I want it. I hide behind my power, so no one will figure me out. As long as I keep talking and being a bitch everyone will think I know what I’m doing. I have to put in extra hours, because if I am not there. They may figure out they don’t need me or someone may do something on their own and it may be better than what I would have done. I try to show my boss how tough I am and show how I will do what it takes; I am even a bitch to my employees. I want my boss to think I am a company player, but the truth is I am really weak and scared I will be figured out. I have heard my boss Gary hates me because I never shut up. I’m confused please send ideas and thoughs. SO give us control freaks a break, we are actually weak and lack confidence. I am 1 of those control freaks. I want to control everything and everyone. I do not want to listen to anyone else’s ideas. If I listen to other people’s ideas and we use them. Everyone may figure out how incompetent I really am. I have to control everyone’s actions, my husband, my employee’s, my kids. Everything needs to be the way I want it. I hide behind my power, so no one will figure me out. As long as I keep talking and being a bitch everyone will think I know what I’m doing. I have to put in extra hours, because if I am not there. They may figure out they don’t need me or someone may do something on their own and it may be better than what I would have done. I try to show my boss how tough I am and show how I will do what it takes; I am even a bitch to my employees. I want my boss to think I am a company player, but the truth is I am really weak and scared I will be figured out. I have heard my boss Gary hates me because I never shut up. I’m confused please send ideas and thoughs.

SO give us control freaks a break, we are actually weak and lack confidence.

]]> By: anonymous for a reason http://controlfreak.net/2007/12/15/a-monopoly-of-ideas/comment-page-1/#comment-30609 anonymous for a reason Tue, 28 Jul 2009 16:29:46 +0000 http://controlfreak.net/2007/12/15/a-monopoly-of-ideas/#comment-30609 Oh my gosh--you must know my boss!!!! Oh my gosh–you must know my boss!!!!

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