Comments on: Setting up a straw man http://controlfreak.net/2007/11/30/setting-up-a-straw-man/ a survivor's guide Tue, 01 Sep 2009 23:21:44 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Wilson http://controlfreak.net/2007/11/30/setting-up-a-straw-man/comment-page-1/#comment-31188 Wilson Sun, 09 Aug 2009 20:53:00 +0000 http://controlfreak.net/2007/11/30/setting-up-a-straw-man/#comment-31188 Hi Just found this Blog. Would you say that a person (my Wife) is a control freak if : after any comment /general oservation made by myself to her she always has a negative response returned. I at times to test her mention an oppion which i know she is in favour off, and await the answer which always comes back with the opposite oppinion which she had a few weeks ago. What are your thoughts. Mr Wilson Hi
Just found this Blog. Would you say that a person (my Wife) is a control freak if : after any comment /general oservation made by myself to her she always has a negative response returned. I at times to test her mention an oppion which i know she is in favour off, and await the answer which always comes back with the opposite oppinion which she had a few weeks ago.
What are your thoughts.

Mr Wilson

]]> By: annabell http://controlfreak.net/2007/11/30/setting-up-a-straw-man/comment-page-1/#comment-11891 annabell Tue, 11 Dec 2007 23:02:39 +0000 http://controlfreak.net/2007/11/30/setting-up-a-straw-man/#comment-11891 Great blog. Is really useful. What I also find about "control freaks" is that if they make a mistake of if they hurt you --they wiil make you feel as if you were misbehaving and as if you had gotten them totally wrong. Like if you fall in love with such kind of person and he/she just wants to play with you-- he/she will make you feel as if you were a lunatic who misinterpreted his /her bodylanguage or whatever. Of course, such things like having a crush on sombody who does not like you back happen. but a normal person would not let you feel guilty or ashamed of it and would act in a more self-conscous way. Great blog. Is really useful. What I also find about “control freaks” is that if they make a mistake of if they hurt you –they wiil make you feel as if you were misbehaving and as if you had gotten them totally wrong. Like if you fall in love with such kind of person and he/she just wants to play with you– he/she will make you feel as if you were a lunatic who misinterpreted his /her bodylanguage or whatever. Of course, such things like having a crush on sombody who does not like you back happen. but a normal person would not let you feel guilty or ashamed of it and would act in a more self-conscous way.

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